{"id":175,"date":"2026-08-03T16:23:00","date_gmt":"2026-08-03T16:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jonesingforthejourney.com\/journal\/?p=175"},"modified":"2026-08-12T20:23:54","modified_gmt":"2026-08-12T20:23:54","slug":"paying-hope-forward","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jonesingforthejourney.com\/journal\/paying-hope-forward\/","title":{"rendered":"PAYING HOPE FORWARD"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Helping Others Find Their Way<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hope is an interesting word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It can sound passive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Like something you simply wait for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;ve come to see it differently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hope can be an action.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A resource.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A donation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A story shared at exactly the moment someone else needs to hear it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That&#8217;s what <strong>Paying Hope Forward<\/strong> means to us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Along this journey, people helped us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Doctors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nurses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Other patients.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Caregivers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Organizations such as ZERO Prostate Cancer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People who were willing to share what they had learned so we didn&#8217;t have to navigate every mile alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eventually, you realize something:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Someone else is coming down this road behind you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They may be standing at the same Mile Marker where you once felt completely lost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Newly diagnosed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trying to choose a treatment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Recovering from surgery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Beginning radiation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Starting hormone therapy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Waiting for the next PSA result.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trying to figure out how to support the person they love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And perhaps something you&#8217;ve learned can help them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That&#8217;s why we created 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trusted resource.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe you remind them they aren&#8217;t alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And someday, perhaps they&#8217;ll do the same thing for someone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That&#8217;s how hope moves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person to person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Family to family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Story to story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One Mile Marker at a time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Our journey is still being written.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are treatments ahead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are questions ahead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There will undoubtedly be unexpected turns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But there is also purpose ahead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And if sharing our story helps even one family ask one more question, find one useful resource, or feel a little less alone during one frightening night, then something meaningful has come from a road we never chose to travel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That&#8217;s what it means to us to <strong>Pay Hope Forward<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Real life. 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