🧡 Paying Hope Forward for Patients, Caregivers & Families Affected by Prostate Cancer

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Mile Marker Journal

The Blog — Real Stories, Mile by Mile

What HoLEP Fixed — and What It Didn’t

September 9, 2026

I thought my prostate problem had been fixed. My HoLEP procedure worked, the tissue removed showed no cancer, and my urinary symptoms improved. Eight years later, I was diagnosed with aggressive prostate cancer. The lesson wasn’t that HoLEP failed. It was that treating BPH didn’t mean I could stop paying attention to my prostate.

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PAYING HOPE FORWARD

August 3, 2026

Helping Others Find Their Way Hope is an interesting word. It can sound passive. Like something you simply wait for. I’ve come to see it differently. Hope can…

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THE PURPOSE

August 1, 2026

Turning Pain Into Purpose and Impact I never planned to become a cancer advocate. I certainly never planned to build a platform around prostate cancer, caregiving and hope.…

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THE JOURNEY SHIFTS

July 30, 2026

Adapting, Adjusting and Moving Forward Cancer didn’t just change our medical plans. It changed our life plans. Before diagnosis, Sue and I imagined retirement unfolding very differently. Travel.…

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THE TREATMENT

July 28, 2026

Radiation, ADT and the Road Ahead I once believed surgery might be the chapter where cancer treatment ended. My pathology told us otherwise. With aggressive features—including disease outside…

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THE QUESTION

July 25, 2026

The Question That Changed Everything People sometimes assume Ask One More Question came from one dramatic moment. It really didn’t. It grew out of something I kept experiencing…

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THE SURGERY

July 23, 2026

Facing the Unknown and Finding Strength There is something surreal about walking into a hospital knowing that when you wake up, a part of your body will be…

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THE DECISION

July 21, 2026

Choosing a Path Forward With Courage One of the first things you discover after a prostate cancer diagnosis is that there may not be one obvious path forward.…

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THE DIAGNOSIS

July 19, 2026

The Day Everything Changed There are moments in life when everything becomes divided into two parts: before and after. For us, cancer created that line. Before the diagnosis,…

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